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Polina was wiping her hands on a kitchen towel when the doorbell rang. The pot of soup was bubbling on the stove, the potatoes in the oven were not quite ready yet, and she had only just been about to set the table. It had been a hard workday, her legs were aching, and all she wanted was to have a quiet dinner with Semyon.
“Who is it?” Polina called, heading toward the door.
“It’s me, Valeria Timofeyevna,” came the familiar voice of her mother-in-law.
Polina opened the door. Valeria Timofeyevna stood on the threshold with a bag in her hands, dressed in a strict suit and perfectly made up, as always.
“Hello, come in,” Polina said, stepping aside to let her mother-in-law enter.
“Is Semyon home?” Valeria Timofeyevna asked, taking off her shoes.
“He hasn’t come back from work yet. I’m just making dinner. Join us,” Polina offered, although the visit had caught her off guard.
Her mother-in-law walked into the living room, looking around the apartment with an attentive gaze. Then she headed into the kitchen and sat down at the table, as if everything had been planned that way.
Polina put plates on the table, poured the soup, and sliced the bread. Valeria Timofeyevna silently watched her daughter-in-law bustle around, then finally picked up a spoon.
After tasting the soup, her mother-in-law grimaced.
“Not enough salt,” Valeria Timofeyevna remarked, pushing the plate aside. “You undersalted it.”
Polina silently reached for the saltshaker and added salt to her own portion. She did not feel like answering, and there was no point anyway — her mother-in-law would always find something to criticize.
“Well, are you going to eat, or is it completely not to your taste?” Polina asked, trying to keep her voice even.
“I’ll eat,” Valeria Timofeyevna sighed. “What choice do I have?”
Her mother-in-law continued eating dinner, but every dish drew a comment from her. The potatoes had just come out of the oven — too dry. The salad on the table — too much onion. The cutlets Polina had fried that morning — a bit tough.
“You should have beaten the minced meat longer,” Valeria Timofeyevna instructed, breaking a cutlet with her fork. “Then they turn out softer. I always made them that way for Semyon.”
Polina clenched her teeth and began clearing the empty plates from the table. The tension was growing with every minute, but she had to restrain herself — for the sake of peace in the family, for Semyon’s sake.
The door slammed, and her husband appeared in the hallway.
“Mom?” Semyon exclaimed in surprise as he entered the kitchen. “Where did you come from?”
“I stopped by to check on you,” Valeria Timofeyevna smiled, offering her cheek for a kiss.
Semyon kissed his mother and sat down at the table.
“How nice that you dropped in,” her husband said happily. “We haven’t seen each other in a long time.”
Polina poured tea and sat beside him. Semyon ate with appetite, talking about work, and did not even notice the tense atmosphere. Valeria Timofeyevna nodded while listening to her son and occasionally cast appraising glances at her daughter-in-law.
When her mother-in-law left, Polina began washing the dishes. Semyon came up behind her and hugged her shoulders.
“Thank you for welcoming Mom,” he said warmly. “It’s hard for her alone, so she has to come by and visit us.”
“Mm-hmm,” Polina replied shortly, without turning around.
Semyon went into the room, and Polina remained alone in the kitchen. Exhaustion washed over her like a wave, but not from work — from these visits, from the need to be constantly on alert, from the endless remarks.
A few days passed. Polina was making dinner when the doorbell rang again. Opening the door, she saw Valeria Timofeyevna.
“Good evening,” her mother-in-law greeted her, walking in without an invitation. “Is Semyon here?”
“He’ll be home soon,” Polina answered.
Valeria Timofeyevna walked into the living room and ran her finger along a shelf.
“Dust,” her mother-in-law stated, showing her finger to her daughter-in-law. “You need to wipe more often. A home must be clean.”
Polina pressed her lips together and returned to the kitchen to set the table. Her irritation was growing, but she still had to hold herself back.
During dinner, Valeria Timofeyevna started again.
“Polina, you work too much,” her mother-in-law remarked, pouring herself tea. “A real wife should devote more time to her family and home. Otherwise, look — there’s dust, and the cooking suffers too.”
Polina was placing the kettle on the table, and her hands treacherously began to tremble. Semyon looked up from his plate but said nothing.
“I try to manage everything,” Polina replied quietly.
“Trying is not enough. You have to manage,” Valeria Timofeyevna snapped.
Her mother-in-law’s visits became regular. Every evening, as if on a schedule, Valeria Timofeyevna appeared at dinnertime. Polina began cooking more in advance, taking her mother-in-law’s tastes into account, but she still found flaws.
“The meat is overcooked,” Valeria Timofeyevna would say.
Or:
“The buckwheat is undercooked.”
Or:
“The salad is bland somehow. Not enough spices.”
One evening, after her mother-in-law had left, Polina could no longer hold back.
“Semyon, we need to talk,” she began, sitting beside her husband on the sofa.
“About what?” Her husband did not take his eyes off the television.
“About your mother. She comes every day and criticizes everything. I’m tired, do you understand? It’s hard for me.”
Semyon muted the television and turned to his wife.
“Polya, try to understand, she’s lonely. Dad is gone, she lives alone. She gets bored, so she comes to us.”
“But she constantly makes remarks! Everything is wrong, nothing is good enough!”
“That’s just her way,” Semyon shrugged. “She wants to help, to give advice. Don’t take it so personally.”
“Semyon, I’m serious. Please talk to her. Ask her to call in advance, to come less often.”
“All right, all right,” her husband nodded. “I’ll talk to her.”
But nothing changed. Valeria Timofeyevna continued coming over as if the conversation had never happened. Polina suspected that Semyon had never spoken to his mother at all.
One evening at the table, her mother-in-law moved on to another subject.
“Misha has become completely spoiled,” Valeria Timofeyevna remarked, looking at her grandson, who was playing in the room. “You’re too soft with him, Polina. Without discipline, the boy will grow up weak.”
“Misha is five,” Polina objected. “He’s a child.”
“Exactly, a child,” her mother-in-law picked up. “This is precisely the time to build character. And you spoil him. At his age, Semyon already made his own bed and took out the trash.”
Polina felt something boiling inside her. Her patience was running out, but once again she said nothing, clenching her hands under the table.
After yet another dinner, Valeria Timofeyevna slowly rose from the table. She looked at Polina and said:
“Tomorrow I want borscht. With pampushki. I haven’t had proper borscht in a long time.”
Polina froze with a cup in her hand. Something snapped inside her. She placed the cup on the table, gave a bitter smile, and looked straight at her mother-in-law.
“Mother-in-law, have you confused something? This is my home, not a free restaurant.”
Valeria Timofeyevna froze, unable to believe what she had heard. Her face turned red, her eyes widened.
“What did you say?” Her mother-in-law’s voice trembled with outrage.
“What you heard perfectly well,” Polina replied calmly. “I am not a restaurant where you can order from the menu.”
“How dare you speak to me like that?!” Valeria Timofeyevna shouted. “I am your mother-in-law! An elder!”
“And does that give you the right to come here every day without calling, criticize everything, and demand borscht?” Polina’s voice remained even, but steel rang through it.
Semyon rushed out of the room at the noise.
“What’s going on here?” her husband asked in confusion.
“Do you hear how your wife is talking to me?!” Valeria Timofeyevna pointed a finger at Polina. “She is insulting me! Right in front of me!”
“Polina, what happened?” Semyon looked at his wife.
“What happened is that I can’t tolerate this anymore,” Polina said, straightening her back. “Your mother comes here every day and acts as if this is her home. She criticizes everything — the cooking, the cleaning, the way I raise our son. And now she’s even ordering what I’m supposed to cook tomorrow!”
“Mom just wanted borscht,” Semyon muttered. “There’s nothing terrible about that.”
“Nothing terrible?” Polina’s voice broke. “Semyon, don’t you see what’s happening? I’ve turned into a servant in my own home!”
“You’ve gone too far,” Semyon said firmly, stepping closer to his mother. “Apologize to Mom. Immediately.”
Polina looked at her husband, then at her mother-in-law. Valeria Timofeyevna stood with her arms crossed, looking triumphant. Semyon stared at his wife demandingly, waiting for an apology.
And Polina broke.
“Apologize?” Polina repeated, her voice growing louder. “For what? For daring to tell the truth?”
“For disrespecting your elders!” Valeria Timofeyevna interrupted.
“And where was your respect for me?” Polina stepped forward. “When you came here every day without warning? When you criticized my every move? When you taught me how to raise my own child?”
“I wanted to help!”
“Help?” Polina smirked. “You wanted to control! You wanted me to dance to your tune, cook according to your recipes, clean according to your standards, raise my son according to your rules!”
“Polina, calm down,” Semyon tried to intervene.
“No!” his wife cut him off. “I will not calm down! For months I endured it! I kept silent, held myself back, smiled when I wanted to scream! I cooked, cleaned, tried to please everyone! And what happened? Everything was still wrong!”
“You are ungrateful,” Valeria Timofeyevna hissed. “I tried for you, wanted to help, and you…”
“You did not want to help,” Polina interrupted. “You wanted everything to be the way you were used to. You wanted me to be a convenient daughter-in-law who silently endures everything. But you know what? I’ve had enough!”
“How dare you!” Valeria Timofeyevna stepped toward her daughter-in-law.
“I dare,” Polina answered calmly. “Because this is my home. My apartment. And I have the right to say who is a welcome guest here and who is not.”
“Semyon!” her mother-in-law cried. “Do you hear this?!”
Semyon stood in the middle of the room, shifting his gaze from his mother to his wife.
“Polya, maybe there’s no need to talk like that?” her husband mumbled. “Let’s calm down and discuss everything peacefully…”
“Discuss?” Polina turned to her husband. “I tried to discuss it! I asked you to talk to your mother! And what did you do? Nothing! Because your mother is sacred to you, and I’m just the wife who has to endure everything!”
“She is my mother!”
“And I am your wife!” Polina shouted. “And if you can’t protect me in my own home, then what is the point of this marriage?”
A heavy silence fell. Valeria Timofeyevna looked at her daughter-in-law with hatred, while Semyon stood speechless and confused.
“You know what?” Polina straightened. “Leave. Both of you. Immediately.”
“What?” Semyon did not understand.
“I said leave my apartment,” Polina repeated firmly. “Right now.”
“You’re kicking me out of my own home?” her husband asked in disbelief.
“I am,” Polina nodded. “Because this is not your home. The apartment is in my name. I inherited it from my grandmother before our marriage. So yes, this is my home, and I have the right to decide who lives here.”
“Semyon, do you hear that?!” Valeria Timofeyevna shrieked. “She’s kicking you out!”
“Polya, you can’t do this,” Semyon began.
“I can,” Polina interrupted. “And I am doing it. Pack your things. You have one hour.”
“You’ve lost your mind!”
“No,” Polina shook her head. “For the first time in a long while, I am completely sane. I’m tired of being a servant in my own apartment. I’m tired of enduring insults. I’m tired of living with a husband who can’t set boundaries with his own mother.”
Semyon opened his mouth, but no words came out. Valeria Timofeyevna grabbed her bag.
“Let’s go, Semyon,” her mother-in-law said. “There’s no point standing here. We’ll manage without this ungrateful woman.”
“Polya, you’ll regret this,” Semyon tried to threaten her, but his voice was trembling.
“The only thing I regret,” Polina replied, “is that I didn’t do this sooner.”
Valeria Timofeyevna slammed the door loudly. Semyon stood there for a little while longer, then silently went into the bedroom to pack his things.
Polina sank onto a chair and covered her face with her hands. Her hands were shaking, her heart was pounding, but inside there was a strange calm. As if a weight had fallen from her shoulders.
A week later, Polina filed for divorce. Semyon tried to come back, called her, asked to meet, promised that everything would change, that he would talk to his mother, that he would set boundaries.
“It’s too late,” Polina replied briefly. “I’ve made my decision.”
“But Misha! Think about our son!”
“That is exactly who I’m thinking about,” Polina said. “I don’t want him to grow up seeing his mother endure humiliation. I don’t want him to think that this is how things are supposed to be.”
The court proceedings went quickly. Child support was assigned without problems. Semyon received the right to see his son on weekends.
Polina stayed in the apartment with Misha. The first weeks were difficult — getting used to the silence, to the absence of her husband, to a new life. But gradually, relief came.
She no longer had to cook elaborate dinners every day. She could make simple scrambled eggs or dumplings if she was tired. She no longer had to wait for uninvited guests and endure criticism. She no longer had to justify herself for every speck of dust.
The apartment became a home again. Polina placed flowers on the windowsill, bought new curtains for the living room, and rearranged the furniture the way she liked. Misha adapted quickly — children handle changes more easily.
One evening, Polina was sitting in the kitchen with a cup of tea. Misha was already asleep, and the apartment was quiet. Outside the window, the city lights glowed, and a simple casserole was warming on the stove for breakfast.
Polina looked around her kitchen, at the clean tables, at the flowers in the pot. Everything was hers. Her life was hers. She made her own decisions.
No criticism. No pressure. No uninvited guests demanding borscht.
Polina smiled and took a sip of tea. There was a long road ahead, but she was no longer afraid to walk it alone.
Because loneliness turned out to be far better than living in the company of people who did not know how to respect others.