We moved in together, and he brought his mother along ‘for just a week.’ I packed my things and went back to my quiet apartment.”

We moved in together, and he brought his mother along ‘for just a week.’ I packed my things and went back to my quiet apartment.” Moving in together is always a leap of faith. We think we know our partner inside and out: we have gone on vacations together, spent wonderful weekends together, talked about … Read more

I’m 52. I went on 15 dates with women aged 38 to 48. “Without these 7 things, you get dropped immediately.” Here’s the honest list — and I agree with it.

I’m 52. I went on 15 dates with women aged 38 to 48. “Without these 7 things, you get dropped immediately.” Here’s the honest list — and I agree with it. I’m fifty-two years old. I got divorced two years ago after twenty-four years of marriage. I live alone in a two-room apartment that I … Read more

You Want Too Much for a 50-Year-Old.” A man who was courting me explained that I was supposed to clean his place, cook for him, and sometimes “do that,” while continuing to live at my own home.

You Want Too Much for a 50-Year-Old.” A man who was courting me explained that I was supposed to clean his place, cook for him, and sometimes “do that,” while continuing to live at my own home. “I’m expecting you at my place at seven.” “I never agreed to come to your place.” “What do … Read more

My 53-year-old neighbor repaired my bathhouse for me. After helping, he started coming over every day. I put up with it out of politeness — and that was a mistake

My 53-year-old neighbor repaired my bathhouse for me. After helping, he started coming over every day. I put up with it out of politeness — and that was a mistake You know, there are things you are ashamed to talk about. Not because you are guilty, but because you yourself do not understand exactly where … Read more